性爱之后

中午看了，有彻肤之感，那短暂的快感过后，会发生争吵，不愿去面对一切的现实，由来的是更多空洞感，那感觉很吓人很害怕。

看到verycd上有下载，忍不住重新下下来，又看了一遍。

多好的电影啊。

假如我是教育部长，一定会强烈推荐给全国高校的学生，作为大学期间必看电影之一，看完还要写心得体会，开班会集体讨论。

又或者，如果我能遇到机器猫，我会要它用时间机器带我回到上世纪90年代，去某个中学校园，找到某个为超重烦恼，为体育考试烦恼，无聊的时候爱哼一首奇怪的歌的小孩。

我会告诉他，喂，小孩，虽然《出路》是一首很酷的歌，可是将来很多很多的问题，哼歌也解决不了的。

所以我把这张碟给你，当你遇到头疼问题的时候，你看看这张碟里的电影就好了。

可是，当我和机器猫飞回21世纪，我突然想起来，糟糕，我忘了送他一台电脑了！

　Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.

Christopher & Leslie:"Doesn't work like that, Christopher. Love is not negotiable.""Oh baby. Everything is negotiable.""No, not love. Not love. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantee. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if shallow you may end up hurt and paralyze from the neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a loop of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. Dude, that's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins?""Sure.""That's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser. And love is the game that it's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a cheap plastic key chain."

完事过后，时间指向午夜也就是通常所说的零点你终于抽完了一根不能说短的香烟疲倦，和着不能说出的疲倦在你的脸上交替变幻秒针小心翼翼地指向新一点仿佛你不再属于它们的时间你眨了一下眼，又眨了一下眼灯光在窗外一闪而过黑暗中一种浸泡了的寂静完事过后，就那么孤单的一秒你总是迫不及待地从床上跳了下来在狭小的房间里四处走走看看空气里全是潮湿的云的味道你找不到那个一开始就躲起来的人。

就不要去接近那面镜子它比你想象的更要脆弱有人说：我们的灵魂会因此变得异常薄许多次，我光着身子坐在它的前面有一次，我竟然看见眼前的肉体消失完事过后，只剩下一些冰冷的液体或许，它比我们更加接近现实更加熟悉每一种沐浴露的香味那个时候我们似乎走得更远了当它的冰冷停留在你刚刚愈合的身体外面。

夜色抚平了一切我终于接受了自己偶尔不在的某种事实在这一秒里我似乎过了很多世而你也刚巧是赶到了那儿没有早一步，也没有晚一步……PS：末两句出自于张爱玲的《爱》

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- Love is not negotiable.- Everything is negotiable.- No, not love. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantee. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if shallow you may end up hurt and paralyze from the neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a loop of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. Dude, that's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins?- Sure.- That's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser. And love is the game that it's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a cheap plastic key chain.

Part.1SEX 良性而自然地刺激大脑产生使人欢愉的化学物质。

内源性阿片肽。

外源的有 毒品之类，酒精，咖啡，等等等等。

朋友？

分明就是炮友。

可能是由于长期的“合作愉快”，大脑在经历一定量的和谐完美（照顾彼此感受）的SEX之后，不了解爱情本质的男主角开始误以为这就是爱。

所谓的“照顾彼此感受”就是类似对爱付出的行为。

他误以为自己处在恋爱中。

谈话后，1.触摸（特写手按在腚上）——感觉不够。

2.背拥（依赖）3.关灯（照顾）4.“I love you”5.“I love you,too”（这对的确有点什么）Part.2gay part is so Unnatural---jump!Part.3What? Check the 康凳 when Wearing underwear? （貌似不合逻辑）Cosplay...interesting教育方式差异 虽然不是彻底的直接 但至少比东方国家直接多了这种方式 并不否定SEX的自然纯朴本质（好歹多数生物繁衍进化就靠它了）事实上是链条和枷锁扭曲了事物的本质，人的看法，然后采用错误的方式去理解操作，使事情变得复杂，甚至可以说非自然化，失去纯美的阳光的外衣。

（除了穴居生物）Part.4L after G ? jump!（By the way, 穿白色汗衫的女孩是喜剧 《the 70's show》 的jakie。

） Part.5Too old, XP? 应该是Part.1 逆式jump!Part.6Gay again? jump!Part.7Nobody is Complete!防御心理 都害怕成为第一个付出承诺的人 99% VS 99%但对于其他的人 输出功率都低于90% 甚至 50%彼此都有一个100% 的形象，但实质上只是为了刺激对方。

如果爱情走到这步，感觉不来个天雷地火的灾难危机（命运灾难的强制机遇），没人会说真心话了。

Part.8"This is too much for me,too!"西班牙小子的道德观收到毁灭性冲击...

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挺逗的。。。

一对GAY。。

的那个片段。。

people have to face what he or she really is 。。

可是。。

总是不愿意承认。。

最后一对乐死人了。。

好玩。。

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