如果我留下

（以下记于2024.11.29晚）1. 真是标准的美国高中小清新爱情剧了.2. 摇滚父母 生下古典女主.3. oh册那 还觉得肯定不会有车祸这么狗血的剧情 就真有了.4. 女主在灵魂出窍和回忆间横跳.5. wow 男女主的第一次 bgm是hallow诶.6. wow again. swan lake 想到了 不能说的秘密 其实剧情也有些像不是吗 关于穿越.7. 哎 恋爱的现实 就是甜蜜期过了之后 只剩争吵 即使电影都是.8. 好了 时间暂停 看利雅得.

9. 太太太难得 看沙特联. SIUUUU！

（以下记于2024.12.6晚）10. “音乐是我们分手的理由”. 不 音乐是拯救我夜晚的理由 比如 上原广美.11. 大提琴+吉他 这不就是爵士的艺术内核吗！

12. 不出所料的 女主被录取 而且在纽约诶！

13. 害 谁没写过呢.

14. 女主醒来 剧终.15. oh册那 最后的最后 我才意识到 女主是猫和老鼠的女主啊！

然后翻看猫和老鼠评论 才意识到我会收藏本片的原因.

根据畅销青少年小说改编书评里说"It is an overly aching story, you will definitely cry."弥留之际灵魂对生与死的选择是随亲人们离去 还是成为孤儿为爱留下来穿插着拉大提琴的高中少女的点滴生活亲人 朋友 恋人 前程痛苦 甜蜜 迷惘 成长说一定会哭，前面其实还好啦但最后被爷爷的话戳中泪点"I want you to live Mia.I want that more than anything in this world.I want you to fight like hell to stay with us.But with everybody else gone,I know it might not be what you want.It might be too hard for you to keep fighting,so if you wanna go,I want you to know it's okay.It's okay...I understand."

我在美国的时候就被这部电影的名字给吸引了但是因为语言问题 我没能走进电影院观看这部电影回来终于等到了有下载 和我想象的有点不同但是不至于落差很大 还不错的一部电影用插叙的手法 从出车祸开始 不断插进很多回忆她的家人都去世了 但是电影最后一秒 她存活了下来if i stay, what will happen?noboday knows what will happen nextlife is full of possiblities, happiness or sadness,they are all the reasons make life colorful and meaningful.if i stay, if i could stay, i wish i coud.

我总也不知道明天会是何种境况，难道仅仅是我们口中那些无聊的反复吗？

你或许想过，你以何种态度去面对的时候，它同样回馈你的是绝不会是太过于糟糕的。

从未想过有一天灾难降临的那样迅疾和毫不留情，一场车祸可以夺取那曾经鲜活过的璀璨的生命，在刹那间变得奄奄一息灰蒙蒙。

眼睛紧闭，唇苍白的轻合着，呼吸，心跳都变得羸弱不堪。

也许只剩下意志支撑着活下去。

如果我留下，如果你要走，全是自己的选择。

回想起生活里的点滴，家人的温暖，恋人的甜蜜，朋友的慷慨，还有自己的梦想与苦难。

关于大提琴与吉他的相遇，那是怦然心动的难以忘怀的美丽的爱情。

当一颗躁动的舞台的狂放的摇滚青年在一门之隔被那大提琴传来的沉稳而隐藏的深情呼告吸引驻足时，当他眼中映入那个微闭双眼的投入的金发女孩时，心也一并被那女孩掳走了。

那种沉静的温柔是种让人放下所有戒备和不安的想望，那一刻，他知道他一直在等她，因而真正见到的时候，他一眼便认出，那就是她。

嘿，是你。

既是欢喜心动的，也是踏实舒畅的。

传统保守的大提琴总是把自己抑制的像一潭不起波澜的湖水，蓝蓝的沉郁，在演奏中也是把琴弦当做命弦一般紧紧把握着，张弛有力，不容分毫的瑕疵。

那个有着洁白的面孔和一头不羁的鬈发的男孩也是让自己更想触及的，那眼睛里满是忧郁感的深情，真挚的想拥入怀里。

吉他有他的狂放不羁，当然也会那般柔情，大提琴有她的沉稳执着，当然也会那般激情，即便两人是有不同的音乐取向，但同样是他们互相吸引的地方。

爱从来不是被习惯和爱好所界开的，我爱的就是你，无论你的衣装与头发的颜色，你在我心里始终是被我深深爱着，我们彼此了解到那一点就已足够。

没有一对相处的情侣能够避免争执，也在争执的过程中相互伤害，因为我们是在生活，不存在乌托邦的理想国，柏拉图的爱情也只是假设中所呈现的。

回归生活现实，这本来就是充斥着杂琐与不幸的真实的世界，无人可以摆脱，需要面对它战胜它，所以我们会觉得苦了，痛了，消磨了激情与忍耐力。

我也开始怀疑我活下去的生命里是有着多少幸福的。

没有什么比失去家人更能击溃一个人的思想意志了，那血液里流淌着的同根同脉的亲情是冬日里最温暖的火光。

当这火光突然熄灭，突然有那么一刻会觉得这火光是遍世界也再难以寻到了，它再也不会亮在女孩的面前。

她所习惯并安享的那个家庭已经消失了，自己又该何去何从呢，留下来还是要和家人去那一边团圆呢，可以肯定的是如果她离开她是不会孤单的。

然而留下，醒来后的这个真实的世界又该如何面对呢？

爱人，梦想，凡是能够让自己留恋人世的牵连也是让自己有力量活下来的。

尽管也让自己痛苦的爱情就像玫瑰一样鲜艳和强有力，当亚当弹唱起他为米娅写的歌，她也不顾一切的留下来了。

睁开眼，她还有亚当，还有她的大提琴，生活里总是有让我们欢喜的东西存在着，就看你怎么去寻找出来把它在生命里更好的张扬和强化。

你会发现，原来自己可以这么幸福。

发现《如果我留下》和《八月迷情》里的男女主人公都是吉他与大提琴的邂逅，我想这并不是偶然的巧合。

美国本来就是一个开放的兼容的国家，我想电影元素里的这两个呈现应该就是传统与现代的完美交融吧，同样的对生命的崇尚与思考，选择，都让这个国家充满那么多色彩。

可能是因為燒腦科幻片看噠太多反而對這種純愛電影沒太大感覺。

但實在是太喜歡Chloë所以居然還是看哭暸....不過和The Fault Of Our Stars相比感人程度還是弱暸那麼一截兒...這種青少年愛情也祇可能發生在Portland這種人煙稀少噠地區暸吧...在大城市應該就不是這種故事暸...另外因為一直在追Grimm。

看著看著總是跳戲...總覺得一會兒會有甚麼Wesen跑出來殺個人然後Nick和隊友們去破案打怪...總之呢。

給Chloë噠純美噠五分兒...流口水ing！

这个故事本来不错的，改编自畅销书，看起来书应该会强一点，电影就不行，给我的感觉完全是一个过去一个现在，然后平均的剪成相同的数量，再你一个我一个拼出来的电影，前后的衔接各种怪怪的，比起我今天回顾的《消失的爱人》，简直一个天一个地。

当然，我们不能把这个导演跟我们的芬奇大神去比...我发现看电影之前看评论是不好的，至少看差评是不好的，因为看差评就会导致看电影的时候尽挑差的地方看。

这片是烂，但它在亲情上面的传达的东西却很棒（爱情方面就懒得提了…什么破爱情这是…），而且很直白。

首先女主有个好爹和一个好妈，以前都是玩摇滚的，现在成了模范父母，太cool了，接着是他们各种逗比，各种和小孩玩成一块，他们各自都有对女儿充满爱的巧妙回答，我想正是这些回答打动了我，我想，当你发自内心这么答的时候，你绝对是爱自己孩子的，我毫不怀疑。

本来在友邻上已经分享了那些很棒的片段，无奈友邻一次只能传9张图片，所以还是觉得不完美，有些话很重要不能缺，我决定在日记上补上。

走起。

PS：牺牲，什么是牺牲，挂在嘴边的牺牲不是牺牲，真正的牺牲，对于牺牲的那个人来说，不是牺牲，它只是一个选择，自己情感的一个选择，没有所谓后悔没有所谓你不要辜负我bla bla bla，它纯粹是自己的选择，而这个选择，在对方看来，可以是伟大的牺牲，是发自内心的爱，传递出来的是力量，不是负担。

We, grown-ups, seems to be stubbornly convinced that young adult stories are stupid, and only teenagers themselves will be silly enough to fall in love with this kind of "so-called" romantic novels. For that we already knew the transitory characteristic of love. We understand it, crystal clear, right from the beginning of the film that their love story might not even live through the winter, they are not going to survive the long distance after high school, not to mention that the post-traumatic stress our heroine must deal with as long as she wake up after the car accident(, though this is the story in its sequel 'Where She Went'). We know that, time itself might bring an end to the relationship between this young man and this young woman.But, is it not the most beautiful part of every teenager love story, or of puberty? What make those young children, those teenager boys and girls so attracting is that they take their pure love, their approaching departure, their breakup as this important that their hearts are tortured by whips for thousands of times. The pain is all that matters, that hurts, that suffocates, and they think they will never get through this. They struggle, they quarrel, they cry, they reconcile with each other, as love and pain remains the only theme of their adolescence.They do not know now, but they will understand it one day, that all these love and pain, joy and suffering will become a memory with bitter sweets or even a memory with no colour, a memory that brings back no sensation. However, this never counteract the real experience they are right now undergoing. All these hurts, all these emotions, all these tears are once so real, that almost break their hearts or already broke them. They live in drama, not because they are affected, but their lives are filled with dramatic conflicts. Not until the puberty ends, along with the death of drama, will these whole true life-play come to a termination.Then, teenage love, which is so void but sincere, dies alongside with it.

剧本很不错，但力度不足！

科洛的出色演技证明了她能重口味也能小清新。

看她演一个普通少女实在难得，而且还是拉大提琴的，那种清纯又高雅的气质，对比之前演绎的Hit girl、吸血鬼还有嘉莉，哇哦脱胎换骨的感觉有木有！

男主角Adam的扮演者Jamie Blackley也相当帅气有型，独立摇滚青年范儿十足。

其实在我看来，一部影片最重要的并不是说她有多么好的特效来夺人眼球，而是它整个故事的完整性，好让你在看的时候不愿快进，在看完的时候又在脑中不断地回想，嘿，我想再往前倒退。

由此这部影片便开始显得珍贵了，当你只想回看开头的那份报纸，就会跟亚当最后放弃演出一心回到米娅身边守护，又在阳台上懊悔不已的画面联系在一起；当你听完爷爷的那番话，你就想回看到当时爸爸卖掉自己心爱的鼓买回女儿大提琴时那脸上喜悦的笑……这是一部音乐贯穿始终的剧，也许很多人说故事老套，但我觉得很多学音乐的人都能有共鸣吧。

为了米娅对音乐的热忱，所有家人的牺牲，家人的鼓励，到后来与男友亚当之间出现分歧，都让人不由回想，还记得温柔的父母在你学琴的那段岁月对你的爱之深、责之切么？

不知为何，看完《星运里的错》和这部两部文艺片的预告片之后，还是首选了这部，可能也比较喜欢这部的演员吧。

总之，看了一遍还想在看，心中总有一个地方漏跳了半拍。

So this turned out to be the movie I chose as my last movie of 2014 & first movie of 2015. What drew me in was the title and the general idea of choosing between life and death. Halfway through, not knowing how it'll end, I was reminded yet again how much I hate unhappy endings, even though happy ones do leave less of a mark. Low expectations really helped. I knew beforehand it couldn't hold a candle to "TFIOS", and later decided for myself that it was indeed not great, but also not terrible either. Many "shining points" made me want to read the book for more of them. And it made me cry, rather easily. I got close to tears when "Gramps" spoke to Mia in the car after the audition, and shed a few when he spoke to her again by the hospital bed, when he told her what her father sacrificed for her. Oh yeah, I was already pretty touched by that scene in which her father gave her the cello -- beautifully wrapped -- as a present. I cried again when Adam begged her to stay in the end. When they left me hanging for a while at the very end, I was dying to know her choice and begging her to stay as well. I already knew this very well, but them Yankees really, really know how to love and how to live. Look at her grandfather in the car: when he felt something and knew it to be true, he expressed it. Loud and clear. Leaving no regrets. Then to top it off, throw in some physical closeness -- in this case, a long and hard hug. That's how you say how much you love someone, instead of the way I'm used to -- no words, to touch, only implied and guessed. Also, look how they have fun: the concerts, the bonfire, "live in the moment"... God I'm so jealous. I have wasted more than 24 years of my life. How many more years do I get? How many more could I afford to waste?"Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans.""Seriously, I respect any musician who just leaves it all on the stage like that. She was awesome.""Because I like to watch you play. You go to another place. And you're beautiful.""No, baby, I didn't give anything up. I played that adventure out, and then it was time for a new adventure with you guys. And sometimes you make choices in life, and sometimes choices make you. Does that make any sense?""Even when they were just wasting time, they weren't wasting time. It was as if no time they spent together could ever be wasted.""You're going to go to Juilliard and play the hell out of your cello. Or you're not. You're gonna stay with Adam and have lots of amazing adventures. Or you're not. Or maybe tomorrow, the Earth's gonna smash into a meteor. Or it's not. Life is this big fat gigantic stinking mess. But that's the beauty of it too. Whatever you do, I support you. Either way, you win. And also either way there's something that you lose. What can I say, baby? True love's a bitch."